Readers explain what it’s like to swallow after a blowjob. What is the taste of sperm? And why do they like it?
Among my friends who go out with guys, I think there is one who does not practice fellatio (she does what she wants with her mouth, we agree).
Swallow after the deep throat, a taboo?
The deep throat is rather ordinary. But the next step, swallowing after ejaculation. A little less. I feel that this practice is seen as shameful, dirty as if sperm dirty the person who receives.
There is a taboo about it: most turlutes end up like that in porn. Even if I’m aware that porn is not life, I’m surprised by the notable lack of articles about it (unlike those about sodomy for example).
So, I wanted to give the floor to people who happen to be ejaculated in the throat. Say, what’s up with snowballing?
Swallow or not swallow? That is the question.
Several girls told me the same thing: at the beginning of their sex life; they swallowed because she thought it was simply what is expected of them.
So let’s make a point before the rest of the article: the only thing we expect from you, during a sexual relationship, is to enjoy your vibe in the general consent.
And if you do not want to cum in your mouth, there are plenty of options like your hands.
If the other person tells you that “it’s not a big deal,” “everyone does it,” “I feel like it,” gently remind him that in the meantime, it’s YOUR teeth that are around from his penis.
And that an accident would have happened so quickly.
That said, if you want to swallow, you have to take into account the fact that the practice is not without risk.
As Caroline Rebhi Farin, co-president of Family Planning reminds us: during fellatio, the only way to avoid the transmission of STDs and STIs is to put on a condom. And therefore not to swallow.
Ejaculation increases the risk of transmission, especially if the person who sucks has micro-cuts in his mouth (sometimes caused by a simple brushing of teeth).
So, if you have not tested, stay safe. It will avoid you in bulk: HIV, genital herpes, gonococcus or chlamydiae.
You can get tested in anonymous and free centers all over France (the list here). It only takes time for a small interview and a blood test. And a little advice: ask to have these tests prescribed the next time you visit your doctor!
Fifty shades of sperms
This little aside done, let’s get into the heart of the subject. What texture and taste does it have, sperm?
A good number of testimony validates the slightly salty side. Regarding the texture, Zoe, a reader, speaks to me directly of a “big sticky mucus.”
“It’s sometimes a lot more liquid, but I’ve never had the experience of swallowing in those cases. It would give me the impression that I was pee in the mouth I think; it’s not very attractive.”
PtitePixel is more playful about it
“What surprised me the first time is that it’s pleasantly hot in the mouth.
And it was not slimy as I expected. I remember thinking that it had a salty aftertaste. But later, with other partners, I discovered that the tastes were varied!
For example, an ex had a taste just infamous; another had a more neutral, a bit like cream. “
An anonymous reader tells me I do not like the taste of sperm.
“I swallow it quickly, like when I take a drug, to get rid of it immediately! “
She adds:
“One time, one of my ass plans invited me to join him in his hotel – the super luxurious stuff. We relax, hugs, foreplay, the total, in front, behind and for the final I want it to be in my mouth.
I make him understand that everything rolls, comes the fateful moment.
He ended up enjoying in my mouth and there, my god: a horrible taste! This is the first time that I wondered if I would spit or not. I chose to remain dignified and swallow. “
Let’s clear things up: Sperm is like any body fluid. It can take many forms and tastes, and even if you do not like it, there is nothing “disgusting.” This liquid is merely natural.
That said we do not care about the notion of dignity when we have sperm on the tongue! If you find the liquid inedible, you can spit it out in a tissue or rinse your mouth.
It’s not rude; it’s just life.
Why swallow all the cum after a blowjob?
Ok, although I know almost the appearance of sperm (what do you want, it’s for work), I admit to asking in all sincerity why to inflict it when I read some descriptions.
PtitePixel explains that she likes to feel the contractions of sex at the time of ejaculation. Margaux, another reader, says she wants to have the result of the enjoyment of her boyfriend in her mouth.
But the main argument advanced by all those who have testified is that of taking pleasure in giving pleasure. Alison, a reader, says:
“In general I do not tell my boyfriend that I’m going to do it, I feel he’s holding back until I tell him he can let go. It’s a bit of my surprise for him, a gift that makes us both happy.
Even if it’s still casual, I see this act as something positive, which has not always been the case.”
Because before, with her previous partners, Margaux did it without envy. And that’s the most crucial thing: swallowing is good when you want it, only when you want it.
What if you are dealing with a guy who squirts without warning?
Until then, I spoke of the reports made.
Unfortunately, some people are joking without warning and think that everything will be forgiven if they poke their heads and say:
“Deo, it was just too good.”
To consent to cepom does not mean that one agrees to swallow sperm. That’s why I advise you to answer in the following ways:
- Spitting in the mouth.
- Spitting on his pillow.
- By spitting on his cashmere sweater.
